Family Mediation
for a peaceful transition
The end of a relationship can be overwhelming and
traumatic, especially when children are involved.
As a family mediator, I offer a safe, neutral space where
you and your ex-partner can work together to
improve communication and reach lasting agreements
without going to court. My role is to support you in
making the best decisions for your family as you
navigate this new chapter in your lives.
How the Mediation Process Works
The mediation process starts with an individual and confidential meeting (MIAM) with each participant. This is for you to describe the situation from your perspective and say what you want to achieve. If both of you decide that mediation is right for you the process moves to Joint Meetings,
which hopefully lead to a Final Agreement.
Next Steps involves formalizing the agreements reached.
FAQs
How long does
mediation usually take?
The number of sessions varies depending on the complexity of the issues involved. Typically, 2 to 4 sessions lasting around 90 minutes each are sufficient.
Do I need legal advice?
It is advisable to seek independent legal advice alongside mediation, as mediators do not provide legal advice. That said, the information provided by the mediator may reduce the amount of legal input you require.
Where does mediation take place?
Mediation can be held online or in person. If you prefer not to meet online or be in the same room as your former partner, ‘shuttle mediation’ is an option. In shuttle mediation, each person is in a separate room (either virtually or physically), and the mediator moves between them, relaying messages and proposals to help reach an agreement.
Can we include
our children in the
mediation process?
Children aged 10 and above have the right to have their views considered, which can support their emotional well-being. Their voices can be included through a process called Child-Inclusive Mediation (CIM). The aim of CIM is not to place responsibility on the child or ask them to choose sides, but to gain insight into their perspective so that parents can make better-informed, child-focused decisions.
Is mediation
legally binding?
Mediation agreements are not legally binding. However, the mediator can explain how to make any agreement legally binding through a solicitor, if both parties agree.
What is
"financial disclosure"
in family mediation?
Financial disclosure is the process where both parties share full and accurate details of their financial circumstances. This includes income, assets, liabilities (e.g., mortgages, loans, and credit cards), and pensions, along with supporting documents which act as proof. The purpose is to ensure both parties have a clear understanding of the financial situation, enabling fair and informed decision-making.
How can
I help you?
If you have a question or want to
find out whether mediation is right for your situation, please leave a message.
Family mediation can also be provided
in Spanish, if needed.
